{"id":5976,"date":"2025-03-03T12:46:32","date_gmt":"2025-03-03T10:46:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/leidyklahelios.lt\/?p=5976"},"modified":"2026-02-01T02:11:09","modified_gmt":"2026-02-01T00:11:09","slug":"psichoterapija-knygas-siule-uzdrausti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/leidyklahelios.lt\/en\/apzvalgos\/psichoterapija-knygas-siule-uzdrausti\/","title":{"rendered":"Nepriimtinus klausimus apie \u0161iuolaikin\u0119 psichoterapij\u0105 kelti prad\u0117jusios \u017eurnalist\u0117s knygas si\u016bl\u0117 u\u017edrausti"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Abigail Shrier<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

\u017durnalist\u0117 ir autor\u0117 Abigail SHRIER (47) bent vienu aspektu gali lygintis su psichologijos t\u0117vais \u2013 abi jos knygos taip papiktino Amerik\u0105, kad jas si\u016blyta sudeginti ar bent u\u017edrausti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pirmiausia, \u017einoma, kalba apie daugiau nei skandaling\u0105 \u201eNegr\u012f\u017etama \u017eala: Translyti\u0161kumo manija, suved\u017eiojanti m\u016bs\u0173 dukras\u201c, (Irreversible Damage: The Transgender Craze Seducing Our Daughters), kurioje autor\u0117 dr\u012fso suabejoti, ar kiekviena mergait\u0117, sudvejojusi d\u0117l lyties, tikrai translyt\u0117, klausti, kod\u0117l rei\u0161kinys per pastaruosius metus taip i\u0161populiar\u0117jo, ir net teigti kad jis gali b\u016bti susij\u0119s su kolektyvine \u012ftaka.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Pirmoji leidykla atsisak\u0117 j\u0105 spausdinti \u2013 knyg\u0105 teko leisti savo l\u0117\u0161omis. \u201eAmazon\u201c nesutiko jos pristatyti \u2013 ir tik kelios \u0161eimos, susid\u016brusios su apra\u0161omu rei\u0161kiniu, skyr\u0117 pinig\u0173 reklamai. N\u0117 vienas apie knygas ra\u0161antis leidinys apie j\u0105 neu\u017esimin\u0117, per pristatym\u0105 Izraelyje Shrier buvo u\u017epulta, susitikimus su skaitytojais lyd\u0117jo protestai, ji ne tik prarado darb\u0105 \u201eWall Street Journal\u201c bei kituose leidiniuose, bet ir peln\u0117 did\u017eiausios transfob\u0117s titul\u0105. Ir, ko gero, tik advokat\u0117s i\u0161silavinimas pad\u0117jo autorei i\u0161vengti teisinio persekiojimo.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Papiktinusi Amerik\u0105 Shrier paskatino ir audringas diskusijas daugelyje \u0161ali\u0173. Ta\u010diau \u012ftakingi leidiniai \u201eThe Economist\u201c ir \u201eThe Times\u201c \u012fvertino \u201eNegr\u012f\u017etam\u0105 \u017eal\u0105\u201c. Ir tie, kurie j\u0105 perskait\u0117 be i\u0161ankstini\u0173 nuostat\u0173, rado verting\u0173 pasteb\u0117jim\u0173 apie translyti\u0161kum\u0105 ir nesutiko su kaltinimais transfobija. O u\u017egr\u016bdinta pirmosios knygos \u017eurnalist\u0117 Shrier toliau smalsauja. Ir kapsto dar  giliau: analizuoja, kaip psichoterapija padeda \u2013 ir kaip gali pakenkti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I\u0161 toki\u0173 nepatogi\u0173 klausim\u0173 ir abejoni\u0173 vertyb\u0117mis ir atsirado \u201eBloga terapija\u201c. Pati turinti \u012f paauglyst\u0119 \u012f\u017eengus\u012f s\u016bn\u0173 ir susir\u016bpinusi Z kartos psichikos sveikata, Shrier pastebi, kad \u0161iuolaikiniai t\u0117vai pernelyg pasitiki psichologais \u2013 skuba \u012f juos kreiptis, atimdami i\u0161 vaik\u0173 galimyb\u0119 patiems i\u0161spr\u0119sti savo problemas ir savaranki\u0161kai atsistoti ant koj\u0173.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Gali pasirodyti, kad knyga pirmiausia skirta amerikie\u010di\u0173 skaitytojams \u2013 ryt\u0173 europie\u010diai dar nesp\u0117jo nei u\u017esib\u016bti komforto zonoje, nei papiktnaud\u017eiauti psichoterapija, kuri \u2013 autor\u0117s nuomone \u2013 pernelyg daug d\u0117mesio skiria vaikyst\u0117s traumoms ir neigiamoms patirtims ir \u0161itaip skatina bej\u0117gyst\u0117s ir aukos jausm\u0105. Ir Amerikoje liberal\u016bs t\u0117vai u\u017eaugino nelaimingiausi\u0105, nery\u017etingiausi\u0105, labiausiai \u012fsibaiminusi\u0105 kart\u0105 istorijoje. Augdami \u0161ie vaikai gavo daug psichoterapijos, mokykloje j\u0173 nuolat klausdavo, kaip jautiesi, ir pra\u0161ydavo papasakoti apie jausmus\u2026 Anot autor\u0117s kalbint\u0173 mokslinink\u0173, nuolatinis susitelkimas \u012f tai, kaip a\u0161 jau\u010diuosi skatina depresij\u0105, nerim\u0105 ir narcizi\u0161kum\u0105. Mums nereikia tiek daug apie galvoti save \u2013 tai veikiau kenkia, nei padeda save atrasti.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u017dinoma, autor\u0117 labai ai\u0161kiai atskiria \u017emones, kuriems tikrai reikia psichologin\u0117s pagalbos ir prie\u017ei\u016bros nuo tiesiog nerimaujan\u010di\u0173, nepatogi\u0173, prisl\u0117gt\u0173, sutrikusi\u0173, kokiais visi kartkart\u0117mis b\u016bname. Sveikas psichologinis diskomfortas, li\u016bdesys ir nerimas yra mums netgi naudingi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Autor\u0117 abejoja ir traumos teorija, kuri teigia, kad net menki vaikyst\u0117s nemalonumai gali tur\u0117ti ilgalaik\u012f neigiam\u0105 poveik\u012f suaugusiam \u017emogui \u2013 ji skatina pernelyg gilintis \u012f nuoskaudas ir trukdo gyventi toliau. Juolab m\u016bs\u0173 atmintis n\u0117ra visi\u0161kai patikima \u2013 nuolatos klausin\u0117jami apie patirtas traumas galime prisiminti neb\u016bt\u0105 \u2013 ar b\u016bt\u0105 kitaip. (Elizabeth Loftus \u2013 Amerikos psicholog\u0117, pirmoji prad\u0117jusi tyrin\u0117ti atminties netikslumus, klaidingus prisiminimus, ir net dirbtinai sukurtus prisiminimus. Jos tyriminiai darbai i\u0161 esm\u0117s pakeit\u0117 psicholog\u0173 ir neuromokslinink\u0173 po\u017ei\u016br\u012f \u012f \u017emogaus atmint\u012f). Shrier nuomone, ne visos patirtos nelaim\u0117s turi ilgalaik\u012f neigiam\u0105 poveik\u012f, o rimti mokslininkai Richardas J. MacNally ir Martinas Seligmanas pabr\u0117\u017eia m\u016bs\u0173 geb\u0117jim\u0105 pakilti ir net sunkumus paversti stiprybe.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Knygoje taip pat analizuojamas pernelyg da\u017enas psichotropini\u0173 vaist\u0173 skyrimas vaikams ir nuolatinis d\u0117mesys jausmams. Autor\u0117 \u012fsitikinusi, kad toks elgesys skatina nesaugum\u0105, nerim\u0105 ir priklausomyb\u0119 nuo terapini\u0173 metod\u0173. Nuolat skatinami gilintis \u012f savo jausmus ir juos i\u0161gyventi \u0161iandienos vaikai auga pernelyg baimingi ir nerang\u016bs. O lengva prieiga prie terapijos gali paversti net menkiausias emocines reakcijas sutrikimais. Shrier ne tik svarsto, bet ir dalijasi pacient\u0173, kurie i\u0161 prad\u017ei\u0173 patik\u0117jo psichoterapeut\u0173 diagnoz\u0117mis, ta\u010diau ilgainiui suprato, kad tai buvo grei\u010diau madinga etiket\u0117, pasakojimais.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Beveik po pus\u0117s am\u017eiaus prisimindama senojo vaik\u0173 auginimo autoriteto Benjamino Spocko \u0161\u016bk\u012f \u201eT\u0117vai irgi \u017emon\u0117s\u201c, Shrier si\u016blo gr\u012f\u017eti prie autoritetingos t\u0117vyst\u0117s, kur t\u0117vai ne tik r\u016bpinasi vaik\u0173 gerove, bet ir moko juos atsakomyb\u0117s, savaranki\u0161kumo ir geb\u0117jimo \u012fveikti sunkumus. Ir leisti vaikams klysti ir rizikuoti nuo pat ma\u017eens, kad jie augt\u0173 tvirtais ir atspariais suaugusiaisiais.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kaip ir pirmoji, \u0161i Shrier knyga sulauk\u0117 daug kritikos. Kai kurie psichoterapeutai ir mokslininkai teigia, kad jos argumentai per daug supaprastinti, o pritempti pavyzd\u017eiai neatspindi visumos. \u017dmon\u0117s, kuriems pad\u0117jo psichoterapija, gina vienos ar kitos krypties atstovus \u2013 nors Shrier nieko nepuola, o tiesiog kelia gyvenimi\u0161kus klausimus, apie kuriuos da\u017enai vengiama kalb\u0117ti vie\u0161ai. Knyga suk\u0117l\u0117 gin\u010d\u0173 ne tik tarp specialist\u0173, bet ir tarp skaitytoj\u0173, kurie patys susid\u016br\u0117 su terapijos prana\u0161umais ir tr\u016bkumais. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Kaip ir \u201eNegr\u012f\u017etama \u017eala\u201c, \u201eBloga terapija\u201c kelia nepriimtus klausimus apie \u0161iuolaikin\u0119 psichoterapij\u0105. Skatina susim\u0105styti apie terapijos tikslus ir poveik\u012f. Tuo geriau, jei autor\u0117s  nuomon\u0117 provokuoja gin\u010d\u0105 \u2013 blogiau u\u017e blog\u0105 terapij\u0105 tik veidmaini\u0161ka tyla.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Psichoterapija, tinkamai taikoma vaikams, turintiems rimt\u0173 problem\u0173, gali i\u0161gelb\u0117ti j\u0173 gyvyb\u0119, bet atsitiktiniam vaikui gydymas veikiau bus \u017ealingas. Kod\u0117l?<\/h2>\n\n\n\n

K\u0105 bloga gali padaryti psichikos sveikatos prevencija, specialist\u0173 taikomi konflikt\u0173 sprendimo, emocin\u0117s savijautos steb\u0117senos metodai? Autor\u0117 ai\u0161kiai atsako \u012f \u0161iuos klausimus, tad \u201eBloga terapija\u201c \u2013 b\u016btinas skaitinys visiems, kuriems kyla klausim\u0173, kod\u0117l pastangos palaikyti vaikus da\u017enai neduoda laukt\u0173 rezultat\u0173.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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\u017durnalist\u0117 ir autor\u0117 Abigail SHRIER (47) bent vienu aspektu gali lygintis su psichologijos t\u0117vais \u2013 abi jos knygos taip papiktino Amerik\u0105, kad jas si\u016blyta sudeginti ar bent u\u017edrausti. Pirmiausia, \u017einoma, kalba apie daugiau nei skandaling\u0105 \u201eNegr\u012f\u017etama \u017eala: Translyti\u0161kumo manija, suved\u017eiojanti m\u016bs\u0173 dukras\u201c, (Irreversible Damage: The Transgender Craze Seducing Our Daughters), kurioje autor\u0117 dr\u012fso suabejoti, ar […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":4,"featured_media":5977,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","ast-disable-related-posts":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"set","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[82],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-5976","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-apzvalgos"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/leidyklahelios.lt\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5976","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/leidyklahelios.lt\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/leidyklahelios.lt\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/leidyklahelios.lt\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/4"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/leidyklahelios.lt\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5976"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/leidyklahelios.lt\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5976\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":7021,"href":"https:\/\/leidyklahelios.lt\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5976\/revisions\/7021"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/leidyklahelios.lt\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/5977"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/leidyklahelios.lt\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5976"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/leidyklahelios.lt\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5976"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/leidyklahelios.lt\/en\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5976"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}